I have been asked many times over the years which I think is easier...starting a relationship with a D/s dynamic or transforming an existing relationship into a D/s dynamic. I even receive messages from people in existing relationships that want to bring D/s into what they have, and asking for help and advice. Whether just starting out or being in an existing relationship, each has their good and bad points. But by far I think it's easier to start a relationship with D/s in mind than to change over an existing relationship. This doesn't mean that it can't be done by any means. I just believe it to be easier to start fresh with D/s in mind.